For introverted men in the dating scene, encountering a “goddess” they like can trigger a surge of hormones and restless excitement.
They want to approach her but don’t know how to start a conversation, fearing rejection and embarrassment.
As a result, they watch their crush walk away, missing a beautiful chance to connect.
On the other hand, some overly confident men immediately approach their “goddess” and start chatting nonstop.
They act like they’ve known her forever, talking endlessly without considering whether she’s interested or comfortable.
While the man talks excitedly, the woman often loses interest, responding coldly or ignoring him.
Men who don’t respect women won’t get a second chance—they scare their crush away.
To successfully connect with women, men should prepare thoughtfully. Here are some approaches to help you start a meaningful conversation and build a lasting connection.
1. A Creative Self-Introduction
Start by giving her a basic idea of who you are.
Some men begin with just a “Hi” or “Hello,” leading to awkward silence. If the woman finds him attractive, she might carry the conversation—but this requires exceptional charm.
If you’re an average guy without standout looks or charisma, you’ll need to make a strong first impression.
Deliver a confident, creative self-intro. Speak clearly and energetically—no stuttering or hesitation.
Avoid:
- Over-sharing personal details like a rehearsed script.
- Long-winded family background stories.
Do:
Keep it brief and engaging. Focus on three key points:
- Your name
- Your personality traits
- Your genuine interest in getting to know her
Blend these naturally with humor. A good first impression sets the tone for success.
2. Win Her Over with Thoughtful Compliments
Some men try cheesy pick-up lines, only to get rejected immediately.
Example of what NOT to say:
“You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. You’ve captured my heart, and I can’t walk away.”
This smooth-talking might work on inexperienced girls but comes off as insincere to mature women. It risks making you seem like a player.
Instead:
Observe her style, demeanor, and vibe first. Then tailor your compliment to something specific:
- “Those earrings look elegant on you—they match your vibe perfectly.”
- “Your eyes are stunning… like they hold stars.”
Focus on her interests, and let her lead the conversation. Don’t monologue or dominate the chat—that comes off as arrogant.
3. Seize the Moment for a Follow-Up
Every conversation ends, no matter how great it starts.
The goal of approaching a woman isn’t just to chat—it’s to lay the groundwork for future connection.
Don’t let a good start go to waste. If the conversation flows well, ask for her contact info naturally:
“I’ve really enjoyed talking. Can I get your number?”
Or tie it to a shared interest:
“Let’s exchange contacts—if there’s a chance, we could [activity] together.”